If you think a long-distance relationship has to mean boredom and abstinence, then you are completely wrong.
No matter the distance, the satisfaction that your sex life gives you is up to your creativity and the dialogue in your relationship. So, if you are looking for effective ways to keep the attraction going and make the time go by faster, here is 11 ways to spice up and sexualize your romantic relationship from a distance. However, I want to stress the fact that you shouldn’t do anything that is uncomfortable for you. If you haven’t had sex yet, then some of the following ideas may be awkward or even embarrassing. In this case, you can still spice up your relationship. by strengthening the bond that you have together and move forward gradually. Contents
- 11 Ways to Spice Up and Sexualize Your Long Distance Relationship
- 1. Sextot
- 2. Explore your fantasies
- 3. Send sexy images of yourself
- 4. Share a naughty video
- 5. Turn up the heat on the phone
- 6. Have romantic dates on Skype (and more if you like…)
- 7. Write a fiery letter
- 8. Discover connected sex
- 9. Do a striptease on the webcam
- 10. Give her a sexy gift
- 11. See you again
11 Ways to Spice Up and Sexualize Your Long Distance Relationship
Sexting is a simple but effective way to create intimacy with each other at all times. Start with some flirting messages, before getting to the heart of the matter. You can also add a photo to make your intentions even more explicit. There are no limits, so let go!
2. Explore your fantasies
Communication is an essential element of the long-distance couple. This is the perfect time to explore your deepest fantasies and desires together, without being afraid of being judged. Listening to your partner and suggesting in turn will give you new ideas for your reunion, but also to face the distance.
3. Send sexy images of yourself
Surprise your partner with a more or less evocative photo of yourself: light outfit, original angle, etc. Truth be told, you don’t even have to go very far to brainstorm your other half. Curiosity and imagination take care of it for you.
4. Share a naughty video
If you want to take out the heavy artillery, then a sultry video will be perfect to make your partner boil. Have confidence in yourself and in your power of attraction, and keep a light and glamorous tone for even more results.
5. Turn up the heat on the phone
Hearing the sighs of pleasure and moans through the phone is a great way to feed the imagination of the other and spice up their relationship. Invent a scene, invite your partner to it and describe the smallest deeds and gestures with passion. Even if you can’t touch the other person directly, you can tell them what you would do to them …
6. Have romantic dates on Skype (and more if you like…)
Nothing better than seeing your partner having fun directly. Start with a classic Skype meeting to say the least: dinner, conversation and why not a romantic movie before getting down to business. Creating the right atmosphere is more than necessary in real life, so why forget about it when you’re at a distance?
7. Write a fiery letter
If you or your partner prefer erotic literature, then nothing prevents you from writing a naughty letter or story staging some of your fantasies and desires. Send this to the person concerned or read the result to him during a virtual meeting.
8. Discover connected sex
Today there are more and more sex toys connected and allowing to feel in real time his or her partner as if the distance did not exist. Coupled with Skype, this is the most striking way to share more than just words. To do this, all you need to do is invest in a pair of Lovense sex toys, receive your package and off you go! You do not regret your purchase.
9. Do a striptease on the webcam
Whether solo or in the form of a game, striptease will be a perfect idea for sexualize and increase your bond. One can very well imagine a game of poker, a “truth or dare” or any other adult game which would provide a funny pretext for undressing.
10. Give her a sexy gift
Here’s a little something that will make your other half understand how much you miss them. Send him a romantic and evocative gift such as chocolate, lingerie or even an adult toy. If you are stuck for inspiration, I recommend you read the article I wrote about it on the best romantic gift ideas.
11. See you again
Without a doubt, the ultimate solution. Releasing all the tensions accumulated over several weeks or even months, will promise steamy and memorable reunions. These memories of kisses and hugs will then give you the strength to continue and even more imagination …
In the end, the key is to surprise the other in a way that is innocent but sexy. With that in mind, find what works best for you: maybe video, image, text, action, or voice you prefer. The important thing is that you are comfortable with the method to be used. After that there is no limit. In any case, this type of surprise will certainly earn you points in your relationship, for a more and more burning desire.